•1 If you think they are ignorant or stupid, then why do you use their words to hurt yourself?
•2 If you think they are defective or broken, then why do own what they say causing yourself hurt feelings?
•3 If you think they are weak or hopeless, then why do you make so much out of what they say that you worry yourself with it?
•4 If you think they are an outcast or unwanted, then why do you dwell on what they say until you take it to heart and wound yourself with it?
•5 If you think they are worthless or inadequate, then why do you make their words so worthwhile and vital that you take them to heart and are hurt by them?