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ANGER ISSUES

1. Act Against Anger: Deal with Negative Feelings
2. Eight Steps of Reacting: page 1 of 4
3. Eight Steps of Reacting: page 2 of 4 Detail
4. Eight Steps of Anger Reacting: page 3 Corrected
5. Eight Steps of Anger Reacting: page 4 Example
6. Facts about Anger
7. Quotations by Topic: Anger
8. Shit Happens, Deal with It
9. STPHFR Understand Your Anger
10. Twelve Steps of Reacting: page 1 of 4 Format
11. Twelve Steps of Reacting: page 2 of 4 Detail
12. Twelve Steps of Reacting: page 3 Example Simple
13. Twelve Steps of Reacting: page 4 Example Formal

BLAME ISSUES

1. 5 Styles for Standards & Quality (5TP)
2. Blame 6 Levels
3. Blame or Responsibility: 100 Things You Can Blame
4. Control What You Can
5. Control What You Choose to Feed
6. Damning: Attachment & Detachment
7. Damning & Blaming Increase Problems
8. Damning & Blaming: Consequences of
9. Damning Defeats Coping
10. Damning Self & The 7 Main Emotions
11. Damning: Shoulds & Ego
12. Damning: The Problem & The Solution
13. Damning Traits versus Correction Traits
14. Damning, Whining & Blaming Prevent Solutions
15. Emotional Maturity 6 Levels
16. Emotional Responsibility (ER): Diagram
17. One Hundred Reasons to Stop Damning
18. Quotations by Topic: Damning & Blaming
19. Response of Responsibility
20. Scripture by Topic: Damning
21. Stimulus Responsibility: Before & After a Stimulus
22. Use Negation, Not Destruction

BOOKS &

1. 99¢ Books
2. Coping & Self-Help Books
3. Ego & Spiritual Books
4. Professional & Abstract Books
5. Sayings & Aphorisms Books
6. & Content Tables for Books
7. & Free Extras for Books
8. & Free Previews of Books

eBOOKS AVAILABLE BY TITLE

1. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2003-4
2. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2005
3. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2006
4. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2007
5. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2008
6. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2009
7. Title 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2010
8. Title Acid Test
9. Title Anything Goes
10. Title Attitude Is All You Need! Second Edition
11. Title Breathe
12. Title Carl Rogers, Control Freak
13. Title Ego
14. Title Ego Playground
15. Title Games Ego Plays
16. Title Garbage Rules
17. Title Garden
18. Title How To Govern Anything
19. Title Journal Journey from Ego
20. Title Not
21. Title Planet Earth: Insane Asylum for the Universe, Second Edition
22. Title Self: Who Am I?
23. Title Something For Nothing
24. Title Stress for Success, Second Edition
25. Title The Secret of Maturity, Third Edition
26. Title We’re All Insane! Second Edition
27. Title What’s Your Story?
28. Title World Within: The Inner Life

eBOOK FACTS & INFORMATION

1. 3D: DAILY DOSE OF DISCERNMENT: 2010 – Table of Contents
2. About the Author
3. ACID TEST: Table of Contents
4. Albert Ellis on FitzMaurice
5. Amazon.com Author’s Page
6. ANYTHING GOES: Alternative Meanings for Nothing, Everything & Anything
7. ANYTHING GOES: Table of Contents
8. Apple.com Author’s Page
9. ATTITUDE IS ALL YOU NEED! SECOND EDITION: Attitude Power Is Real Power
10. ATTITUDE IS ALL YOU NEED! SECOND EDITION: New Motivation Diagram
11. ATTITUDE IS ALL YOU NEED! SECOND EDITION: Table of Contents
12. Barnes&Noble.com Author’s Page
13. BREATHE: Coherence Is the Goal
14. BREATHE: New Diagram of Looping, Trapped & Stuck
15. BREATHE: New Technique for Mind-Move Using 5TP
16. BREATHE: New Technique for Mind-Move (ARE)
17. BREATHE: New Technique for Mind-Move (SOP)
18. BREATHE: Relax & Regain Composure in 4 Seconds
19. BREATHE: Supplemental Information
20. BREATHE: Table of Contents
21. BREATHE: Video demonstration of Mind-Moving on YouTube
22. Book Categories
23. Books: Memes of Chapters & More
24. Books of Aphorisms Pages
25. CARL ROGERS, CONTROL FREAK: Table of Contents
26. DRM: Digital Rights Management
27. Ebook Stores: The 5 We Use
28. Ebooks for 99¢
29. EGO: More Information on Ego Pain & Pleasure
30. EGO: New Diagram of the Tripartite Nature of Ego
31. EGO: New Diagram on how Ego Causes Fights
32. EGO: Plans from the Book in PDF Format
33. EGO: Self-Talk Musings
34. EGO: Table of Contents
35. EGO: Table on Using 3Rs to End Ego Thinking
36. EGO PLAYGROUND: Table of Contents
37. Free More Information on Published Books
38. GAMES EGO PLAYS: REBT Diagram of Counseling Game
39. GAMES EGO PLAYS, REVISED EDITION: Table of Contents
40. GARBAGE RULES: 12 Steps Stop Shit
41. GARBAGE RULES: How to Recycle Garbage in 12 Steps
42. GARABE RULES: Shit Happens, Deal with It
43. GARBAGE RULES: Table of Contents
44. GARDEN: 3Rs (Recognize, Remove, Replace) Tables
45. GARDEN: Table of Contents
46. Google.com Author’s Page
47. How to Change or Save the World Using Ocean Government
48. How To Gift Ebooks
49. HOW TO GOVERN ANYTHING: Extras
50. HOW TO GOVERN ANYTHING: How to Change or Save the World
51. HOW TO GOVERN ANYTHING: How to Help or Save the Poor
52. HOW TO GOVERN ANYTHING: Synopsis
53. HOW TO GOVERN ANYTHING: Table of Contents
54. How to Help the Poor Using Ocean Government
55. “How To” Ebooks: Our Ebook Titles As How To Books
56. How To Read Ebooks on Electronic Devices
57. JOURNAL JOURNEY FROM EGO: 15 Questions Free PDF & Table
58. JOURNAL JOURNEY FROM EGO: Table of Contents
59. Kobo.com Author’s Page
60. Latest Professional Book
61. Latest Self-Help Book
62. New Books
63. NOT: Notes on No-ting
64. NOT: Table of Contents
65. NOT: REBT’s 4 Issues As System
66. Out of Print Books: Ours
67. PLANET EARTH: INSANE ASYLUM FOR THE UNIVERSE, Second Edition: Table of Contents
68. Preview Books on Amazon
69. Read on Computers or Smartphones
70. Reserved & Unfinished
71. Scraps: Notes & Partial Projects
72. SECRET OF MATURITY, THIRD EDITION: New Diagram of 6 Levels of Maturity
73. SECRET OF MATURITY, THIRD EDITION: Table of Contents
74. SELF: WHO AM I?: New Diagram Model of the Self
75. SELF: WHO AM I?: Table of Contents
76. SOMETHING FOR NOTHING: Alternative Meanings for Nothing & Something
77. SOMETHING FOR NOTHING: Table of Contents
78. STRESS FOR SUCCESS, SECOND EDITION: 5 Attitudes About Stress
79. STRESS FOR SUCCESS, SECOND EDITION: 5 Kinds of Stress Table
80. STRESS FOR SUCCESS, SECOND EDITION: Table of Contents
81. Suggested Books for Reading & Reference
82. Table of Contents Links for Books
83. Tao Teh King: Online Version
84. Twitter: Free Reading Online Promotions
85. Unpublished Books
86. WE’RE ALL INSANE! SECOND EDITION: New Diagram of 12 Levels of Existence
87. WE’RE ALL INSANE! SECOND EDITION: Table of Contents
88. WHAT’S YOUR STORY?: Table of Contents
89. Which E-Reader Should I Buy?
90. Which of FitzMaurice’s Books Should I Read?
91. WORLD WITHIN: THE INNER LIFE–New Diagram of Triality
92. WORLD WITHIN: THE INNER LIFE–Table of Contents

COMMUNICATION SKILLS

1. 5 Parenting Styles (5TP)
2. Communication Dualities
3. Difficult People: How to Handle
4. Don’t Argue Reality
5. Double-Binds: How to Respond
6. Ego Maintains Fights
7. Eighteen Communication Guides
8. Empathic to Narcissistic: 5 Styles Using 5TP
9. Golden Rule: To Have Friends Be a Friend
10. Happy Relationships Are Easy
11. “I” Statements for Less Conflict
12. “I” Statements: Advanced Version
13. Ins & Outs of Communication
14. Marital Conflict Solved
15. Parenting: 4 Main Failures
16. Parenting: A Strategy of Reciprocity
17. Parenting: Help Children Think for Themselves
18. Parenting: Kevin’s 10 Rules
19. Parenting: Single Parenting Issues
20. Passive to Aggressive: 5 Styles Using 5TP
21. Personalizing: Why did they do that to me?
22. Relational Styles: 25 Based on 5 Thinking Positions
23. Roles As Masks
24. Semantics & Words
25. What Do Men Want?
26. What Do Women Want?
27. What’s It All About?
28. Whiners: Learn How to Stop Them

COPING SKILLS

1. 2 Healthy Options for Coping
2. 4 Seconds Is All You Need
3. 5 Stress Attitudes Using 5TP
4. 5 Stress Kinds or Types Using 5TP
5. 5As of Coping with Life & Reality
6. 5Fs of the Survival Instinct (5TP)
7. 10 Ways to Change & Control Others
8. 12 Steps Stop Shit
9. Acceptance: A Step Towards
10. Alone Is Not Lonely
11. Anxiety & Worry
12. Anxiety & Worry: 12 Steps of Reacting
13. Attitude Power
14. Becoming Is the Enemy
15. Better Choose Better
16. Books for Reading & Reference
17. Bored Are Boring!
18. Clean Your Mind
19. Coherence Is the Goal
20. Coping Quotations: AA
21. Coping Quotations: Alone
22. Coping Quotations: Anger
23. Coping Quotations: Dealing with Difficulties
24. Coping Quotations: Worry
25. Coping Statements to Repeat
26. Correction Is My Friend or Foe?
27. Depression: 12 Steps of Reacting
28. Detachment & Identity
29. Dieting: Lose Weight Permanently
30. Do the Right Thing Anyway
31. Effort Is Inescapable: Choose Right Effort
32. Emotional Maturity & Responsibility
33. Failure Is Not Final
34. Fair or Equal Is a Death Wish
35. Forgiveness Requires Forgiveness
36. Four Steps to End Emotional Pain
37. Garden Your Mind: 3Rs
38. Green Tea: List of Pages
39. Humility Is Not Humiliating
40. Inner Conflict
41. Instant Yoga
42. Maturity: 6 Levels for Your Happiness
43. Maturity Defined & Quotations On Maturity
44. Mindfulness Is Either Animalism Or Spiritualism
45. Miscellaneous Quotations this Author
46. Morning Reading Promoting Coping
47. Negative Feelings: How to Deal With
48. Parenting: 4 Main Failures
49. Parenting: Kevin’s 10 Rules
50. Perfectionism Has its Perfect Place
51. Prayer Works: 3 Steps
52. Preferences Over Shoulds Over Musts
53. Problem & Solution
54. Procrastination with 3 Solutions
55. Roles versus Masks
56. Secret of Life
57. Self-Defeating Behaviors
58. Shame of Self Is an Enemy
59. Six Steps to End Emotional Pain
60. Stop Acting Stupid
61. Stress Is Musts
62. Suffering: The Cause of
63. Think Better Feel Better
64. Three Kinds of Meditation
65. Three Simple Steps to Sanity
66. Three Tests for Practical Living
67. Two Healthy Options: Problem-Solving & Coping
68. Weakness Is Strength
69. What I Learned from Riding a Bicycle
70. Why Not Why?
71. Why Wait for Magic?
72. Work Is Wonderful
73. Worry: What Is Worry Good For?

COUNSELING ISSUES

1. 8 Counseling Issues to Focus On
2. 9 Superstitions of Counselors & Therapists Regarding Feelings
3. Albert Ellis 2nd Most Influential Psychotherapist: External Link
4. Albert Ellis: “The New Yorker” Article
5. Answering “Why” Something Happened
6. Anxiety: Notes on
7. Better Choose Better
8. Books for Reading & Reference
9. Brief CBT Explained in 6 Lines
10. Brief CBT Explained in 12 Lines
11. CBT, REBT & FitzMaurice
12. CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), CT & REBT Quotations
13. Carl Rogers, How to Save His Work
14. Change & 15 Beliefs Regarding Change
15. Change: Is it Possible?
16. Client Intake & Processing Forms
17. Client’s Rights & Responsibilities
18. Conditioning Factors: Many Kinds
19. Confidentiality: 10 Limits to
20. Copyright Information
21. Counseling Notes on
22. Couple Counseling Strategy
23. Dental Analogy of Counseling (3Rs)
24. Depression: Notes on
25. Disclaimer Information Regarding Intention of this Website
26. Emotional Control: Use Your Tools
27. Emotions: 7 Problematic
28. External or Internal Focus?
29. Feeling Superstitions: 9 Common Ones of Counselors
30. First Question in Counseling
31. Four Keys to Counseling
32. Four Keys to Mental Health
33. Four Kinds of Counselors
34. Free Handouts in PDF Format: 91
35. Freedom: Psychological
36. Freud’s Ego Defense Mechanisms
37. Garden Your Mind to Keep it Healthy
38. Golden Rule of Mental Health
39. Insight Levels & Movement
40. Law of Attraction & Visualization
41. Maturity & Emotions
42. Mental Health Field Professions Defined
43. Metatheory of Counseling: 3Rs
44. Motivating Questions to Ask
45. Motivation: 3Ps of
46. Move Beyond Duality Technique (MBD)
47. Movies: Recommended for Being Good
48. Musts: Friend & Foe
49. Nine Fundamental Thinking Errors
50. Nine Ways to Upset Yourself & Others
51. Psychoanalysis: The Problems with Solutions
52. Questions to Ask Yourself
53. Questions (10) to Ask a Prospective Counselor
54. Quotations by Topic: Counseling
55. REBT Is Deeper than CBT, CT & other Counseling Theories
56. REBT’s 4 Issues As a System
57. REBT’s 10 Must Scripts for Life
58. REBT’s 11 Irrational Beliefs
59. REBT’s ABCs of Emotions
60. REBT’s Main Website
61. REBT Websites for More Information: External Links
62. Reasons Why You Do What You Do
63. Reform Versus Mental Health
64. Relate to Experience: How do you?
65. STPHFR Insights on Emotions
66. STPHFR Theory of Emotions
67. Second Question in Counseling
68. Self-talk: 4 Options for Dealing with Disturbing
69. Seven Questions to Ask Yourself
70. Test Your Thinking for its Results
71. The 3Rs of Counseling
72. The 4Rs of Skill Learning
73. Therapy Simplified Into 4 Opposing Issues
74. Third Question in Counseling
75. Thirty-five Stages of Switching or Counseling
76. Three Client Types
77. Three Goals of Counseling
78. Three Stages of Switching or Counseling
79. Three Treatment Plan Goals & 3 Session Goals
80. Transference & Counseling
81. Trauma Treatment Information
82. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE): Defined
83. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE), (UOE), (ULE) & (UAE): Examples
84. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE), (UOE), (ULE) & (UAE): Reasons
85. Ventilation: To Reinforce or To Let Go?
86. Victim Script Defined
87. Visualization: The Technique

EGO & SELF

1. Ego Issues
2. Self-Esteem Issues
3. Self-Nature Issues

EGO ISSUES

1. 2 Kinds of Ego Disturbance & Comfort
2. 3 Ego Problems Contain Most Problems
3. 5 Step Solution to Ego
4. Attachment & Detachment
5. Becoming Is the Enemy
6. Being Mind As Inner Container
7. Better Half of Ego Is Pride
8. Buddhism & Personality Styles
9. Cause of Suffering
10. Container Not Contents
11. Danger: Psychological
12. Destruction & Covering
13. Dilemma of Ego & Duality
14. Doing & Rest
15. Ego Definitions: Same As Self-Esteem Definitions
16. Ego Maintains Fights
17. Faith & Ego
18. Find Self: How to
19. Find Self as Your Host Nature
20. Five Actions of Ego
21. Five Functions & Parts of Self
22. Four Kinds of Ego
23. “I” & Right Attachment
24. Identity & Ego
25. Know-Better Payoffs for Pride
26. Mind & Ego
27. Morning Reading
28. Nine Fundamental Thinking Errors
29. No Ego Pain, No Fear for Self
30. Oneness: Self Is One & Ego Is Many
31. Original Nature Is Child Nature
32. Payoffs for Ego
33. Pleasure & Pain for Ego
34. Pride Half of Ego
35. Problem of Pleasure
36. Psychological Time
37. Quotations on Ego & Becoming
38. Self Is Relation to Experience
39. Self Is Safe
40. Self Is Single
41. Self: Model of
42. Self-Talk: Negate It
43. Shame Half of Ego
44. Shoulds = Pride Payoff
45. Tripartite Nature of Ego
46. Tripartite Structure of Ego
47. Waiting Is the Answer
48. Waiting Spiritual Practice in 3 Steps
49. Worry As Ego Payoffs
50. Worse Half of Ego

FREE EDUCATION PAGES

1. Free Education
2. Free Ebooks
3. Free Courses
4. Free Materials
5. Free Resources

GREEN TEA PAGES

1. Green Tea: Facts
2. Green Tea: Health Benefits
3. Green Tea: Kevin’s Way
4. Green Tea: Preparation

ISSUES & SKILLS

1. Anger Issues
2. Blame Issues
3. Communication Skills
4. Coping Skills
5. Counseling Issues
6. Praying Issues
7. Recovery Issues
8. Responsibility Issues
9. Thinking Skills

NEW TESTAMENT BOOKS

1. Gospel According to Matthew
2. Gospel According to Mark
3. Gospel According to Luke
4. Gospel According to John
5. Acts of the Apostles
6. Epistle of Paul to the Romans
7. First Epistle of Paul to the Corinthians
8. Second Epistle of Paul to the Corinthians
9. Epistle of Paul to the Galatians
10. Epistle of Paul to the Ephesians
11. Epistle of Paul to the Philippians
12. Epistle of Paul to the Colossians
13. First Epistle of Paul to the Thessalonians
14. Second Epistle of Paul to the Thessalonians
15. First Epistle of Paul to Timothy
16. Second Epistle of Paul to Timothy
17. Epistle of Paul to Titus
18. Epistle of Paul to Philemon
19. Epistle of Paul to the Hebrews
20. Epistle of James
21. First Epistle of Peter
22. Second Epistle of Peter
23. First Epistle of John
24. Second Epistle of John
25. Third Epistle of John
26. Epistle of Jude
27. Revelation of Jesus Christ

PAGES BY TOPIC

1. 5 Thinking Positions
2. All Pages: Alphabetical List of Pages by Topic
3. Anger Issues: List of Pages
4. Blame & Damn Issues: List of Pages
5. eBooks Extra Free Information: List of Pages
6. eBooks Facts & Information: List of Pages
7. eBooks for Aphorisms & Sayings: List of eBooks
8. eBooks: List of Categories
9. eBooks: List of Titles
10. CBT, CT & REBT Cognitive Psychotherapies: List of Pages
11. Communication Skills: List of Pages
12. Coping Skills: List of Pages
13. Counseling & Psychotherapy Issues: List of Pages
14. Ego & Pride Issues: List of Pages
15. Emotional Responsibility & Maturity: List of Pages
16. Green Tea: List of Pages
17. Movies: Free, Recommended & Resources
18. New Testament Bible Books: List of Pages
19. Non-Doing, Rest & Return: List of Pages
20. Pages Listed by Topic (this page)
21. Parenting & Management Issues: List of Pages
22. Poems by Title & Topic: List of Pages
23. Praying Issues & Prayers: List of Pages
24. Pride & Shame: List of Pages
25. Quotations by Topic: List of Pages
26. Recovery Issues: List of Pages
27. Responsibility Issues: List of Pages
28. Scripture Human Nature & Abilities: List of Pages
29. Scripture or Bible Quotations by Topic: List of Pages
30. Self-Esteem Issues: List of Pages
31. Self-Nature Issues: List of Pages
32. Short Pages or Quick Reads by Topic: List of Pages
33. Thinking Skills: List of Pages
34. Twitter Promotions: More Quick Reads
35. Websites & External Links by Topic

EXTERNAL LINKS BY TOPIC

1. Charity Websites: List of External Links
2. Ecology & Pollution Websites: List of External Links
3. Free Education: List of External Links
4. Free Education: List of Free eBooks
5. Free Education: List of Free Courses
6. Free Education: List of Free Materials
7. Free Education: List of Free Resources
8. Krishnamurti: List of External Links
9. Movies, Free, Recommended, Resources & Website Links
10. Nonviolent Revolution: List of External Links
11. Quotation Websites: List of External Links
12. Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT): List of External Links
13. Schools Run Intelligently: List of External Links
14. Websites by Topic: List of External Links

POEMS BY TOPIC

1. Act Without Actor
2. Actor Without Claims
3. Be Me
4. Churchianity
5. Compulsion
6. Doing
7. “Don’t Quit”
8. Fight the Good Fight
9. Fully Empty
10. “Happy New Year” by Anonymous
11. “IF” by Rudyard Kipling
12. Live Between
13. Living Labels
14. Me First
15. “Media Intrusion” by Rudyard Kipling
16. “Persistence” by Calvin Coolidge
17. Place Is Space
18. Pray for Suffering: “Untitled” by John Newton
19. Present Well
20. Reflections
21. Self Thrice
22. Self Is Not
23. She Is My Love
24. Somebody Please
25. Space Between Sadness
26. Study Stillness
27. “Success” by Ralph Waldo Emerson
28. The Ride
29. Upside-Down
30. Who Is My World?

PRAYING ISSUES

1. “Desiderata” by Max Ehrmann
2. Lord’s Prayer: New Testament
3. Morning Reading to Promote Serenity
4. Prayer Works: 3 Steps
5. Right Prayer
6. Prayer of Saint Francis
7. “Serenity Prayer” by Reinhold Niebuhr
8. Surrender Prayer
9. What You Serve Is What You Get
10. When & Where to Pray: New Testament

QUOTATIONS BY TOPIC

1. 3Rs (Recognize, Remove, Replace): Memes
2. 5 Thinking Positions (5TP): Memes
3. Acceptance & Coping
4. Advice & Counsel
5. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
6. Alone as Strength
7. Anger, Rage & Wrath
8. Anxiety, Fear & Worry
9. Atheism & Atheists
10. Attitude & Happiness
11. Author’s Daily Quotations: 2014
12. Author’s Daily Quotations: 2015
13. Author’s Daily Quotations: 2016
14. Balance & Harmony
15. Beginning Is Ending
16. Blame & Complain
17. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2003-4
18. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2005
19. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2006
20. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2007
21. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2008
22. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2009
23. Book: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2010
24. Book: Acid Test
25. Book: Anything Goes
26. Book:  Something for Nothing
27. Books: Memes of Chapters & More
28. Books of Aphorisms Pages
29. CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), CT & REBT
30. Communication & Listening
31. Complain & Blame
32. Constructivism & Postmodernism
33. Coping with Difficulties
34. Coping Statements & Phrases
35. Correction Can Be Positive
36. Counseling & Advice
37. Courage & Cowardice
38. Damning & Blaming
39. Deduction: Sherlock Holmes: External Link
40. Detachment & Attachment
41. Do the Right Thing Anyway
42. Eastern Psychology
43. Education & Schools
44. Ego & Becoming
45. Enemies Can Be Useful
46. Evolution Is Exploitation
47. Failure Is Learning
48. Feed Page: Posts & More
49. FitzMaurice, Kevin Everett
50. Forgive to Be Forgiven
51. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2011
52. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2012
53. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2013
54. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2014
55. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2015
56. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2016
57. Free: Memes or Poster-Pictures of Sayings 2017
58. Golden Rule of “Do Unto Others”
59. Hate Others to Hate Self
60. Humility Is Not Humiliation
61. Irish Proverbs: External Link
62. Islam from Notable Non-Muslims: External Link
63. Islam: 45 Free Memes of Authors A-F
64. Islam: 38 Free Memes of Authors G-O
65. Islam: 37 Free Memes of Authors P-W
66. Judging Others Is Judging Yourself
67. Kevin’s Books of Aphorisms: List of Books with Links
68. Maturity Is Responsibility for Emotions
69. Miscellaneous 1 Long List
70. Miscellaneous 2 Long List from Reza Ganjavi
71. Miscellaneous 3 Long List
72. Miscellaneous 4 Long List
73. Mistakes Make Great Teachers
74. Negation or Invalidation
75. Odds & Ends
76. One Human Nature
77. Online: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2014
78. Online: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2015
79. Online: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2016
80. Online: 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2017
81. Parenting, Leadership & Management
82. Poster-Picture Quotations (Memes): List of Pages
83. Postmodernism & Constructivism
84. Pride Is Problem
85. Question & Test
86. Responsibility Is Key to Maturity
87. School & Education
88. Science Is Not Scientism
89. Scraps: Notes & Partial Projects
90. Scripture by Topic: List of Pages
91. Secret of Life
92. Self-Esteem Is Ego
93. Semantics & Words
94. Sherlock Holmes: External Link
95. Simple Is Sure
96. Solitude Is Needed
97. Stand Up & Speak Out
98. Suffering Is Normal
99. Thinking & Thought
100. Trying Is Choosing to Fail
101. Twitter Quotation Postings: 2015
102. Twitter Quotation Postings: 2016
103. Twitter Quotation Postings: 2017
104. Universal Human Nature
105. Websites for More Quotations: List of External Links
106. Work Is Wonderful
107. Worry & Anxiety

RECOVERY ISSUES

1. 5 Levels of Living Life: Assess Yours
2. 12 Steps of Anger Reacting
3. 12 Steps of Anxiety Reacting
4. 12 Steps of Depression
5. 12 Steps of Recovery: Rewritten & Simplified
6. 12 Steps Stop Shit
7. 12 Steps to Keep the Shit Going
8. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA): The 12 Steps of
9. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA): The 12 Traditions of
10. Cause of Addictions
11. Choose Higher when Tempted by Lower
12. Do the Good More & Do the Bad Less
13. Emotionalize New Behaviors & Beliefs
14. How to Quit in 5 Steps
15. Quotations & Slogans from AA
16. Reduce Problems & Stuff
17. Relapse Prevention: 3 Steps
18. SAD: 3 Step Program of Recovery
19. Secret of Life
20. Serenity Prayer: Help with Acceptance
21. Seven Pillars of Recovery
22. Stimulation As Motivation
23. Temptation: A Strategy to Overcome
24. The Four Absolutes: Oxford Group External Link
25. Use Negation, Not Destruction
26. Yoga Practice Points

RESPONSIBILITY ISSUES

1. 3Rs: Recognize, Remove & Replace Problems
2. About It, Is Not It
3. Apologies Can Be Real
4. Better Choose Better
5. Blame 6 Levels
6. Blame or Responsibility: 100 Things You Can Blame
7. Challenging & Disputing Thinking Errors
8. Choose Higher when Tempted by Lower
9. Control What You Can
10. Control What You Choose to Feed
11. Drum Circle Experiment
12. Emotional Maturity 6 Levels
13. Emotional Responsibility (ER): Diagram
14. Fights Diagram: Ego Causes & Maintains Hurt & Anger
15. Four Seconds Is All You Need to Relax
16. Golden Rule: The (Quotations)
17. How Media & Politicians Lie: 8LS
18. Meditation Simplified
19. Motivation 6 Step Cycle from Attitude Is All You Need! Second Edition
20. Non-Doing & Non-Action
21. Parable on Responsibility
22. REBT’s ABCs of Emotions
23. Response of Responsibility
24. Secret of Life
25. Seek-or-Shun Response & 5TP
26. Self-Control: Act Opposite of Feelings
27. Shoelaces Parable: 4 Life Lessons
28. S-R Thinking (Stimulus-Response)
29. STPHFR Infographic
30. STPHFR: Model Explains Feelings & Behaviors
31. Stimulus Responsibility: Before & After a Stimulus
32. Suffer Well: Choice Helps
33. Trying Is Planning to Fail
34. Will: The 7 Options for What to Will

SCRIPTURE BY TOPIC

1. Anger & Wrath: Overcome
2. Anxiety & Worry: Overcome
3. Belief: What It Is
4. Blood–Do Not Eat
5. Children: Rules for Children & Parents
6. Christianity: What it Should Be
7. Churchianity: False Christianity
8. Correction: Good to Seek from God
9. Counsel: Seek Good Advice
10. Damning & Despising: Avoid
11. Depression: Overcome
12. Do Not Make Images of God
13. Ego: The Problem
14. Equality: Humans Are Equal
15. Evil Hides As Good
16. Fasting & Detaching
17. Faith: What It Is
18. Flesh Nature: Human Nature
19. Forgiveness: Practice
20. Freedom: Spiritual Liberty
21. God’s Limits: Because He Is Real
22. Good People Are the Bad People
23. Good Comes only from God
24. Gossip: Avoid
25. Guilt & Shame: Good & Bad
26. Homosexuality & Sodomy: Not Accepted
27. Human Nature
28. Idolatry: Make No Representation of God
29. Inner Quietude: Peace & Rest
30. Judging: Judge Thoughts, Not People
31. Know: The Problem of Claiming to Know
32. Light: The Power of
33. Man Made in Image of God
34. Man’s Opinions Worthless
35. Marriage & Parenting
36. Non-Doing & Rest
37. Original Nature: Human Nature
38. Parenting: Raising Children
39. Peace & Rest: Seek
40. Praise Only God
41. Prayer: When & Where to Pray
42. Praying
43. Pride: The Problem of
44. Rest: Rely on God
45. Satan: The Devil
46. Self Nature
47. Self-Esteem: The Problem of
48. Shame & Guilt: Good or Bad
49. Starve it Out: Detach & Fast
50. Temptation: Advice on
51. Ten Commandments: Real Ones
52. Test & Verify Everything
53. Trusting versus Trying
54. Universality: One Human Nature
55. Vegetarian Diet
56. Vessel Nature of Human Beings
57. Weakness: Seek in Relation to God

SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES

1. 3 Problems Contain Most Problems
2. 3 Tests Show Self-Esteem Insane
3. 5 Moods of Self-Esteem & Ego (5TP)
4. 5 Step Solution to Self-Esteem
5. 10 Questions End Self-Esteem Games
6. Are You a Being or an Experience?
7. Definitions of Self-Esteem
8. Desire: Attachment to Desire Is the Problem, Not Desire
9. Detachment & Identity
10. Fifty Arguments Against Self-Esteem: I Am Not Experiences
11. Fifty Arguments Against Self-Esteem: I Am Not Feelings
12. Fifty Disputations of Self-Esteem: I Am Not Behaviors
13. Fifty Disputations of Self-Esteem: I Am Not Thoughts
14. Four Main Insane Beliefs of Self-Esteem
15. Freud’s Ego Defense Mechanisms & Self-Esteem
16. High Self-Esteem in Low Self-Esteem
17. Inner Adversary’s Right & Left Hands
18. Is a Human Being Only Their Behaviors?
19. Knowing Self As Something
20. Nine Fundamental Thinking Errors
21. Quotations on Self-Esteem
22. Scripture by Topic: Self-Esteem
23. Self: Model of
24. Self-Talk Is Insane-Talk
25. Shame Half of Ego
26. Thinking Working on Thinking Fails
27. Twelve Reasons Self-Esteem Destroys Self
28. Twenty Five Reasons Why You’re Not Self-Ratings
29. Twenty Wacky Beliefs of Self-Esteem
30. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE): Defined
31. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE), (UOE), (ULE) & (UAE): Examples
32. Unconditional Self-Esteem (USE), (UOE), (ULE) & (UAE): Reasons
33. Universality (shared human nature): Way of Peace
34. What Is Self-esteem? One Sentence Definitions

SELF-NATURE ISSUES

1. 3 Duties of Self-Realization
2. 3 Errors & 3 Solutions
3. 3Rs & Flow Recapturing
4. 5 Keys of Spirituality
5. Are You a Being or an Experience?
6. Attachment & Detachment
7. Becoming Is the Enemy
8. Being & Mind
9. Buddhism & Personality Styles
10. Cause of Suffering
11. Container Not Contents
12. Danger: Psychological
13. Destruction & Covering
14. Doing & Rest
15. Find Self
16. Find Your Host Nature
17. Five Functions & Parts of Self
18. Focus on 3 Truths for Right Identity
19. “I” & Right Attachment
20. Know, Do & Be to Live
21. Knowing Self As Something
22. Nature of Ego Pain & Pleasure
23. Oneness
24. Original Nature
25. Praying Issues: Morning Reading
26. Problem of Pleasure
27. Psychological Time
28. Roles As Masks
29. Scripture by Topic: Ego Is The Problem
30. Scripture by Topic: Equality or Humans Are Equal
31. Scripture by Topic: Flesh Nature Is Human Nature
32. Scripture by Topic: Good People Are the Bad People
33. Scripture by Topic: Inner Quietude & Peace
34. Scripture by Topic: Man Made in Image of God
35. Scripture by Topic: Non-Doing
36. Scripture by Topic: Original Human Nature
37. Scripture by Topic: Pride Is Problem
38. Scripture by Topic: Self Nature Is Image of God
39. Scripture by Topic: Universality or One Human Nature
40. Scripture by Topic: Vessel Nature of Human Beings
41. Self: Model of
42. Self Is Not Observer
43. Self Is Relation to Experience
44. Self Is Safe
45. Self Is Single
46. Self-Talk: Negate It
47. Stimulation As Motivation
48. Twenty Five Reasons Why You’re Not Self-Ratings
49. Universality (shared human nature): Way of Peace

THINKING SKILLS

1. 3Rs (Recognize, Remove, Replace): Memes
2. 6 Styles of Thinking
3. 7 Thinking Positions Based on 5TP
4. 8 Thinking Skills for Detaching
5. 9 Thinking Positions Based on 5TP
6. Atheism Is Superstitious
7. Ballet & Thinking
8. Beyond The Duality of Opposites
9. Big versus Small Thinking
10. Both-And Skill
11. Choice Is a Delusion
12. Circle Diagram of 5 Thinking Positions (5TP)
13. Constructivism: Pros & Cons
14. Continuum Knowledge
15. Deconstructivism: The Answer
16. Descartes’ Dualism & the 7 Realities
17. Duality & Opposites
18. Eastern Psychology
19. Ego’s Know-Better Payoffs
20. Ego: The Four Kinds
21. Ego: The Tripartite Nature of
22. Evolution Exposed
23. Five Survival Styles
24. Five Thinking Positions (5TP)
25. Five Thinking Styles
26. General Semantics & Contact
27. Global Attitudes
28. Hierarchy Natural
29. How Media & Politicians Lie: 8LS
30. How to Help the Poor
31. How to Save the World
32. Human Rights: United Nations Declaration
33. Know, Do, & Be Thinking
34. Levels of Existence
35. Life Is Positive, Neutral, Or Negative?
36. Limitations of Thought
37. Meditation: The Right Kind
38. Messenger & Message Problem
39. Mind Is a Magnet
40. Nazi Thinking: Hive Mind
41. Nine Causes of Everyday Madness or Neurosis
42. One + One = Three
43. Perfectionism Has its Perfect Place
44. Pinhead Arguments Rarely Work
45. Postmodern Foolishness
46. Postmodernism & Constructivism Exposed
47. Quotations on Thinking
48. REBT’s 10 Irrational Beliefs
49. REBT’s 11 Irrational Beliefs
50. Rational & Helpful Thoughts: 50
51. Revolution: How to Succeed
52. Science versus Scientism
53. Second-Order Thinking
54. Self: The Model of
55. Semantics & Words
56. Spiritual Development 12 Stages
57. Spiritual Development: First 5 of the 15
58. Spiritual Development: Second 5 of the 15
59. Spiritual Development: Third 5 of the 15
60. Spirituality: What Is it?
61. Superstitions: 9 about Feelings
62. STPHFR Model of Feelings
63. Superstitions: 42 Modern Ones
64. Test Your Thinking
65. Thinking Errors: 7 of CT
66. Thinking Working on Thinking Fails
67. Thinking Errors: 9 Basic Ones
68. Thinking Errors: 12 Cognitive Biases (External link)
69. Universality: The Way of Peace
70. Use Negation, Not Destruction
71. What Is Thinking Good For?
72. What Is Yoga? What Is Instant Yoga?
73. What, How & Why Questions
74. Who Is My World?: Poem
75. Word Sets for Using the 5 Thinking Positions

TOPICS

1. Pages by Topic
2. Poems by Topic
3. Quotations by Topic
4. Scripture by Topic
5. Websites by Topic