• If you think someone made you angry, then you are unaware of how and why you chose to be upset.
• If you think someone made you scared, then you are unaware of how and why you chose to feel anxious.
• If you think someone made you feel inferior, then you are unaware of how and why you accepted that identity.
• If you think something made you depressed, then you are unaware of how and why you identified yourself as a hopeless failure.
• If you think something made you feel ashamed, then you are unaware of how and why you identified yourself as a social failure.
