• Relationships are often about trying to manage someone else in order to manage yourself.
• Relationships are often about condemning and criticizing someone else instead of yourself.
• Relationships are often about trying to control someone else in order to control your emotions.
• Relationships are often about trying to fix someone else in order to fix your attitude and expectations.
• Relationships are often about trying to change someone else in order to change your self-esteem a.k.a. ego.