• Which is the greater burden, your discomfort, or your whining about it?
• Which is the stronger cause, your nuisance, or your grumbling about it?
• Which is the greater heaviness, your trouble, or your complaining about it?
• Which is the greater disturbance, your disadvantage, or your fuming about it?
• Which is the more serious offence, your being inconvenienced, or your upsetting yourself about it?