• Don’t try to feel what your enemies want you to feel, because then they win.
• Don’t try to feel what the trolls want you to feel, because that is to feed the trolls.
• Don’t try to sense how others want you to feel; choose how you will feel regardless.
• Feeling bad often comes from not understanding the intention of others to put you down in order to feel superior to you.
• Don’t try to understand others by trying to feel what they want you to feel; understand others by understanding their intentions and ego payoffs.