• You can have perfect musical skills, but if you are lost in self-esteem games, then you will hit a wrong note.
• You can have perfect practice of driving skills, but if you get triggered into self-esteem games, then you will drive poorly.
• You can have perfect awareness of body language, but if you are absorbed in self-esteem games, then you will miss the cues.
• You can have perfect training for how to play a sport, but if the other team triggers your self-esteem games, then you will play poorly.
• You can have perfect knowledge of how to handle conflict, but if you are engrossed in self-esteem games, then you will mishandle the conflict.