• Your self is not involved in your problems, but your ego a.k.a. self-esteem probably is.
• Your self is not the issue in your problems, but your ego a.k.a. self-esteem probably is.
• Your self is not resisting facing your problems, but your ego a.k.a. self-esteem probably is.
• Your self is not judged along with your problems, but your ego a.k.a. self-esteem probably is.
• Your self is not under review when you have problems, but your ego a.k.a. self-esteem probably is.