• Abusing abusers makes you one of them.
• Damning others requires you to identify with them.
• Serving blaming, damning, and whining will get you just that.
• Abuse is the best excuse to abuse, which makes the circle and cycle of abuse infinite.
• Yes, think and speak critically of beliefs, cultural habits, human responses, ideologies, and thinking styles—but not of individuals as if they were such things.