•1 Feel regret about something, because you can claim doing without having to do anything but feel regret and without having to face the inevitable failure of trying to fix the past.
•2 Feel anger something, because you can claim doing without having to do anything but feel anger and without having to face the inevitable failure of trying to control what you cannot control.
•3 Feel guilt or shame about something, because you can claim doing without having to do anything but feel guilt and without having to face the inevitable failure of trying to choose differently in the past.
•4 Feel anxious about someone or something, because you can claim doing without having to do anything but feel anxious and without having to face the inevitable failure of trying to feel reassured about unknowns.
•5 Feel depressed about something, because you can claim doing without having to do anything but feel depressed and without having to face the inevitable failure of trying to change depression into happiness.