•1 You demand other people change not realizing how little you change and how hard you find it to change your habits.
•2 You worry about bad things happening not realizing that worry can function like prayer for the things you worry about.
•3 You complain about tasks that waste time and energy not realizing that complaining wastes more time and energy than most tasks.
•4 You always manage to find a way to note exceptions and failings not realizing that encouraging and inspiring comments gather more influence.
•5 You blame and make excuses for your mistakes and problems not realizing that taking responsibility for them empowers you to overcome them.