Author: Kevin Evertt FitzMaurice, M.S.

This is a common four-step self-esteem game to make you accept yourself as bad thoughts.1. Admit that you have a bad impulse, feeling, or thought.2. You must try to change or control the bad to prove you are not it and are good.3. Result, you fail as y…

• Labels are not human beings.• Names are not human beings.• Images are not human beings.• Concepts are not human beings.• Actions, behaviors, categories, characteristics, constructs, crimes, descriptions, habits, judgments, opinions, personalities, th…

• The pull of fear is stress.• The plan of fear is greed.• The potency of fear is distress.• The purpose of fear is protection.• The permission of fear is disorder.

• Relating to problems is the problem.• By relating to problems you maintain problems with attention and energy.• By relating to problems you claim abilities and capabilities to change and control problems that you do not have.• By relating to problems…

• Experience is silent.• Experience is dangerous because it can contradict all conditioning.• Experience that contains verbal portions is an interpretation, not an experience.• Experience is that which you have less and less of as you become more and m…

• Do you enjoy giving more than receiving?• Do you usually make the most of what happens?• Do you make your plans work despite constant change?• Do you direct your negative energies into positive efforts?• Do you direct the negative energies that you r…

• Victimhood is not the path to liberty.• Victimhood is not the path to equality.• Victimhood is not the path to adulthood.• Victimhood is not the path to independence.• Victimhood is not the path to accountability, competency, maturity, or responsibil…

• People say change is painful, but what people find painful about change is exchanging claims for knowing for not knowing.• When adults are talking about emotional or psychological pain, it’s a safe bet that they are talking about affronts to their eg…

• Doing your best means that you pray to do all parts well instead of praying to skip or gloss over some difficult or strenuous parts.• Being your best means that you pray to look good to others and you do what you imagine that will take.• To be your b…

• What steps will you take today to live the life you desire to live?• If you were living the life that you desire, then what would you be doing? Do more of that now.• If you were living the life that you desire, then what would you be thinking? Think …