• You can fix blame on something, or you can problem-solve and fix something.
• You can whine on about something, or you can cope and get on with something.
• You can damn something and stay angry, or you can accept something stay working productively.
• You can worry about something and stay anxious, or you can research how to plan and prepare and stay proactive.
• You can regret something and stay ashamed, or you can make up for something and stay honest and responsible.