• Don’t ask how something makes you feel; instead, ask why you make things personal.
• Don’t ask how something makes you feel; instead, ask why you make things so important.
• Don’t ask how something makes you feel; instead, ask why you make things about your ego.
• Don’t ask how something makes you feel; instead, ask why you make things about your story.
• Don’t ask how something makes you feel; instead, ask why you make things awful, horrible, or terrible.
