•1 If you don’t like the way someone is behaving, then chances are you need to stop behaving that way.
•2 If you think some principle is needed in the world, then chances are you need to start following that principle.
•3 If you don’t like the way someone is talking to you, then chances are you need to stop talking to yourself that way.
•4 If you post a particular idea, saying, or thought over your cubicle, then chances are you need to start living up to that maxim.
•5 If you don’t like someone’s attitude or manner, then chances are they are a mirror for your attitude and manner that you cover with darkness, false appearances, and reframing.