• Relating to problems is the problem.
• By relating to problems you maintain problems with attention and energy.
• By relating to problems you claim abilities and capabilities to change and control problems that you do not have.
• By relating to problems you identify with problems; thereby, you cannot get rid of those problems without getting rid of your identity.
• By relating to problems you put yourself in a position to try to change and control them; thereby, you feed problems with conflict until after repeated failures you suppress those problems into the safety of darkness.