•1 You cannot be both a constant victim and mature.
•2 Holding men responsible for everything and women responsible for nothing infantilizes women.
•3 The child avoids responsibility to avoid atonement, blame, change, and punishment.
•4 The mature person seeks accountability, fault, and responsibility to advance their competence, knowledge, and service.
•5 When women seek their fair share of responsibility for social problems, then women will be considered mature enough to receive social equality.