• If you do not self-govern, then you demand social governing.
• If you do not self-govern, then you are emotionally immature.
• If you do not self-govern, then you remain a victim of circumstances.
• If you do not self-govern, then you blame, damn, and whine about what controls you.
• If you do not self-govern, then you try to control the people, places, and things that you think are controlling you.