• Your complaint about people whining is suspect, because you whine about their whining.
• Your complaint about how bad something is, is suspect, because you continue to dwell on it.
• Your complaint about others not respecting you is suspect, because you clearly do not respect them.
• Your complaint about others gossiping about you is suspect, because you are gossiping about them gossiping.
• Your complaint that the news and social media are full of negative information and viewpoints is suspect, because you continue to devote a lot of time to them.