• Don’t forget the mistake, do focus on the lesson.
• Focus on what you can do right, not on what you can do wrong.
• Focus on your strengths and talents, not on your weaknesses and inabilities.
• Focus on what you can do right now, not on what you should have done or could do.
• Yes, a focus on the positive is needed, but always along with a recognition of and a detachment from the negative.