• Emotional abuse and emotional violence are addictive for the ego.
• Emotional abuse and violence allow the dual ego pleasures of feeling superior and acting mean.
• Emotional abuse and violence are mean actions and being allowed to act meanly proves superiority to the ego.
• Emotional abuse and violence are mean actions and when you act mean you feel arrogant, entitled, and appear pretentious.
• Emotional abuse and violence are easily excused by the abusive and violent actions of others or society.