2 Kinds2 Kinds of Disturbance2 Kinds of Ego Comfort4 Ego ModesRelated Pages6 Groups of Topics10 Skills & Topics
2 Kinds of Ego Disturbance & 2 Kinds of Ego Comfort
- Ego will help you to recognize, remove, and replace your ego, a.k.a. self-esteem.
- Games Ego Plays will help you to understand the games adults, corporations, and countries are playing.
“And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.” —John 3:19
“Everyone sees what you appear to be, few experience what you really are.” —Niccolò Machiavelli
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FIRST KIND OF EGO DISTURBANCE: EGO PAIN
- The first kind of ego disturbance is familiar to everyone.
Ego pain goes by many names such as:
- ego pain
- emotional pain
- humiliation
- hurt
- loss of face
- low self-esteem
- negative self-concepts
- negative self-images
- psychological pain
- shame
One-Sentence Definition of Ego Pain
- Ego pain is an emotional experience in relation to the self as negative self-constructs, not as a human being.
SECOND KIND OF EGO DISTURBANCE: FEAR OF EGO PAIN
- The second of ego disturbance is also familiar to everyone.
- However, few recognize it as ego disturbance.
Ego fear of pain goes by many names such as:
- anxiety or general worry
- avoidance of criticism
- avoiding risks
- denial of problems
- escapism
- fear of ego pain
- fear of negative self-concepts
- fear of negative self-images
- fear of rejection
- fear of success
- flight from failure
One-Sentence Definition of Ego-Pain Fear
- Ego-pain fear is an emotional experience in relation to self as becoming negative self-constructs.
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2 KINDS OF EGO COMFORT
FIRST KIND OF EGO COMFORT: PRIDE
- Ego is comforted by pride.
Pride goes by many names:
- achievement
- acknowledgment
- being better than others
- bigger person
- bragging
- despising other people
- doing better than others
- famous person
- feeling better than others
- gloating
- gossiping about others
- hating other people
- having better than others
- high self-esteem
- important person
- knowing better than others
- positive self-concepts
- positive self-images
- recognition
- rich person
- success
- superiority
SECOND KIND OF EGO COMFORT: SEEKING PRIDE
- Ego is comforted by the pursuit of pride.
The pursuit of pride is done in many ways:
- Becoming better than others is rewarding to the ego.
- Evolving past others is rewarding to the ego.
- Growing beyond others is rewarding to the ego.
- Seeking better self-concepts.
- Seeking better self-images.
- Seeking pride is rewarding to the ego.
- Seeking superiority is rewarding to the ego.
- Seeking to know, do, or be better than others.
- Studying to be better than others.
- Training to be better than others.
- Trying to get pride is rewarding to the ego.
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ADULTS IN ONE OF 4 EGO MODES
- You can understand adult action, intention, interaction, conversation, and motivation as being in one of these four modes.
4 Ego Modes of Adults
- Experiencing ego pain.
- Fearing, avoiding, or escaping ego pain.
- Experiencing ego pleasure.
- Seeking ego pleasure.
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Related Pages of Free Information
- Ego Issues: Destruction & Covering
- Ego Issues: Payoffs for Ego
- Ego Issues: Shoulds = Pride Payoff
- Scripture Topic: Good People Are the Bad People
- Thinking Skills: Know-Better Payoffs
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- 1. Anger Skills & Topics
- 2. Blame Skills & Topics
- 3. Communication Skills & Topics
- 4. Coping Skills & Topics
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