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Blame Issues: Free Help

10 Ways to Make Things Worse

Free Information on Blaming & Damning Issues

“It is the peculiar quality of a fool to perceive the faults of others and to forget his own.” —Cicero

“Likewise, someone who criticizes is criticizing himself, saying implicitly, ‘I can’t see very well with my eyes so inflamed.’” —Rumi

“Only God can damn without serving Satan.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” —Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming–or damning.” —Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127

Blaming & Complaining Are Forms of No-ting

  • No-ting is the number one cause of failure and mistakes.
  • Read Don’t Read This! to understand no-ting and its impact on your life.

Note on Blaming & Damning

  • Blaming and damning work together so much that they are almost synonyms.
  • Blaming regularly includes damning and vice versa.

“It is impossible to suffer without making someone pay for it; every complaint already contains revenge.” —Friedrich Nietzsche

What to Blame from the Writings of Seneca

Complain About Nothing But Yourself

Pages to Help You Stopu Using Blaming & Damning

  1. 5 Styles for Standards & Quality (5TP)
  2. Blame 6 Levels
  3. Blame or Responsibility: 100 Things You Can Blame
  4. Control What You Can
  5. Control What You Choose to Feed
  6. Damning: Attachment & Detachment
  7. Damning & Blaming Increase Problems
  8. Damning & Blaming: Consequences of
  9. Damning Defeats Coping
  10. Damning Self & The 7 Main Emotions
  11. Damning: Shoulds & Ego
  12. Damning: The Problem & The Solution
  13. Damning Traits versus Correction Traits
  14. Damning, Whining, & Blaming Prevent Solutions
  15. Emotional Maturity 6 Levels
  16. Emotional Responsibility (ER): Diagram
  17. Make Worse to Make Better As a Strategy
  18. One Hundred Reasons to Stop Damning
  19. Quotations by Topic: Damning & Blaming
  20. Response of Responsibility
  21. Scripture by Topic: Damning
  22. Stimulus Responsibility: Before & After a Stimulus
  23. Use Negation, Not Destruction

From: Steve Stewart-Williams @SteveStuWill

From: Steve Stewart-Williams @SteveStuWill

Related Pages

  1. Coping Skills: Becoming Is the Enemy
  2. Coping Skills: Depression—12 Steps of Reacting
  3. Poems by Topic: Space Between Sadness
  4. Responsibility Issues & Suggestions: List of Pages
  5. Responsibility Issues: Parable on Responsibility

Issues & Skills Menu: 9 Sections (Including this Section #2)

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