Blame Issues: Free Help

BlamePages LisedRelated Pages6 Topic Groups Menu9 Skills Menu

Blaming & Damning Issues: Free Help


“It is the peculiar quality of a fool to perceive the faults of others and to forget his own.” —Cicero

“Likewise, someone who criticizes is criticizing himself, saying implicitly, ‘I can’t see very well with my eyes so inflamed.’” —Rumi

“Only God can damn without serving Satan.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” —Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming–or damning.” —Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127


Blaming & Complaining Are Forms of No-ting

  • No-ting is the number one cause of failure and mistakes.
  • Read Don’t Read This! to understand no-ting and its impact on your life.

Blaming & Damning Are Married

  • Blaming and damning work together so much that they are almost synonyms.
  • Blaming regularly includes damning and vice versa.
  • Leave them both, else one will bring back the other.

“It is impossible to suffer without making someone pay for it; every complaint already contains revenge.” —Friedrich Nietzsche


What to Blame from the Writings of Seneca

  • Click for quotations on blaming.

Complain About Nothing But Yourself


  • Read and discover the best diagrams and maps of how people play games with your mind and heart.

Related Pages of Free Information

  1. Coping Skills: Becoming Is the Enemy
  2. Coping Skills: Depression—12 Steps of Reacting
  3. Poems by Topic: Space Between Sadness
  4. Responsibility Issues & Suggestions: List of Pages
  5. Responsibility Issues: Parable on Responsibility

From: Steve Stewart-Williams @SteveStuWill

From: Steve Stewart-Williams @SteveStuWill


10 Ways to Make Matters Worse

  • Click for more information.

10 Ways to Make Things Worse


  • Read and discover the best diagrams and maps of how people play games with your mind and heart.

Damning and Blaming

6 Groups of Topics Menu


  • Read and discover the best diagrams and maps of how people play games with your mind and heart.

Damning and Blaming

9 Skills & Issues Menu: (This Page Is Section #2)


  • Read and discover the best diagrams and maps of how people control and manipulate you.

Damning and Blaming