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100 Reasons to Stop Damning Now

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“He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us His holy Spirit.”–I Thessalonians 4:8

“To condemn is stupid and easy, but to understand is arduous, requiring pliability and intelligence.”–J. Krishnamurti, The Collected Works of J. Krishnamurti, Volume IV, p. 143

“For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.”–I John 3:20

“We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming–or damning.”–Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127


100 REASONS TO END DAMNING

  1. Avoiding damning is the motivation of avoidance behavior.
  2. Damning always conflicts with the facts.
  3. Damning blinds you to “what is.”
  4. Damning can only be attributed to damning.
  5. Damning can only thwart not help any positive long-term goals.
  6. Damning cannot add up.
  7. Damning cannot and does not cure anything.
  8. Damning cannot be factual.
  9. Damning comes from damning.
  10. Damning decreases knowledge and awareness.
  11. Damning defeats awareness.
  12. Damning demotivates.
  13. Damning denies understanding.
  14. Damning disallows negotiation and compromise.
  15. Damning disallows understanding.
  16. Damning discourages.
  17. Damning discredits any opposing views.
  18. Damning discredits the facts.
  19. Damning does not follow from what happened.
  20. Damning does not lead to corrective behavior.
  21. Damning does not release anger but instead builds anger.
  22. Damning dramatizes events into what they are not or were not.
  23. Damning follows only from damning.
  24. Damning gets in the way of problem-solving.
  25. Damning has no functional use.
  26. Damning has no saving graces.
  27. Damning hinders your goals.
  28. Damning hurts all.
  29. Damning is “the” enemy of the human race.
  30. Damning is “the” enemy of your self.
  31. Damning is a process of jumping to conclusions.
  32. Damning is always a lie.
  33. Damning is based on circular reasoning.
  34. Damning is based on thought-things so is out of touch with reality.
  35. Damning is by definition always untrue.
  36. Damning is caused by damning.
  37. Damning is closed-minded.
  38. Damning is motivated only by damning.
  39. Damning is never consistent with the facts.
  40. Damning is never more than a bad inference.
  41. Damning is never more than a foolish assumption.
  42. Damning is not caused by shoulds, laws, or rules.
  43. Damning is not caused by the breaking of shoulds, laws, or rules.
  44. Damning is not deserved.
  45. Damning is not logical.
  46. Damning is not needed for any kind of change, political, religious, or otherwise.
  47. Damning is not practical.
  48. Damning is not reality.
  49. Damning is not what happened.
  50. Damning is often based on personalizing.
  51. Damning is self-defeating.
  52. Damning is the basis of depression.
  53. Damning is the best example of overgeneralizing.
  54. Damning is the cause of emotional disturbance.
  55. Damning is the cause of wars and fights.
  56. Damning is the foundation of gossip.
  57. Damning is the purpose of the news.
  58. Damning is the source of the news.
  59. Damning is the way of the unrighteous.
  60. Damning leads to low self-esteem.
  61. Damning limits your ability to reality check.
  62. Damning limits your options.
  63. Damning limits your understanding.
  64. Damning makes enemies not friends.
  65. Damning makes things worse not better.
  66. Damning never helps and always hinders.
  67. Damning prevents the examination of reality.
  68. Damning prevents the freedom to look at alternative views.
  69. Damning returns to its source: damning.
  70. Damning robs you of the energy you need to solve problems.
  71. Damning seeks its own level: damning.
  72. Damning sees things one-way-or-the-other.
  73. Damning serves only damning.
  74. Damning serves only death and destruction.
  75. Damning wastes time and energy.
  76. Damning when accepted leads to criminal thinking.
  77. Damning will not get you what you want unless what you want is death and destruction.
  78. Damning’s only reality is damning.
  79. Escapism is the result of fleeing damning.
  80. No matter how bad things get they cannot lead to or cause damning.
  81. No one can make you damn anything.
  82. No proof is possible for damning.
  83. No set of circumstances can cause or excuse damning.
  84. Perversion is one way to cope with the damning of sexuality.
  85. The causes that are given for damning are not causes but at best only correlations.
  86. The effect of all damning is damning.
  87. The excuse for all damning is damning.
  88. The function of all damning is damning.
  89. The logic of all damning is damning.
  90. The only excuse for damning is damning.
  91. The only purpose for damning is damning.
  92. The only reason for damning is damning.
  93. The only source for damning is damning.
  94. The outcome of all damning is damning.
  95. The purpose of all damning is damning.
  96. The reality of all damning is damning.
  97. The source of all damning is damning.
  98. The utility of all damning is damning.
  99. There is no logical progression from any event to damning.
  100. There never will be any evidence that any damning is correct or real.

MESSAGE: Stop all damning. Seek tolerance, understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance in place of damning.


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“And just as two wrongs don’t make a right, rage against offenders is probably the worst way to try to correct them.”–Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 130

“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain and most fools do.”–Benjamin Franklin

“As long as the mind is in conflict–blaming, resisting, condemning–there can be no understanding. If I want to understand you, I must not condemn you, obviously.”–J. Krishnamurti, The Collected Works of J. Krishnamurti, Volume V, p. 51

“Behold, God is mighty, and despiseth not any: He is mighty in strength and wisdom.”–Job 36:5

“Being right does not give you the right to damn.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Condemn the sin, not the sinner.”–Christian saying

“Damning is the worst form of demanding.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Damning is turning the living into things, into the dead.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Damning is when the cure is worse than the illness.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Damning is when the medicine is worse than the poison.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Despise the crime, not the criminal.”–Japanese saying

“Do not weep; do not wax indignant. Understand.”–Baruch Spinoza

“Even when people act nastily to you, don’t condemn them or retaliate.”–Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 205

“Fear less, hope more; eat less, chew more; whine less, breathe more; talk less, say more; hate less, love more; and all good things are yours.”–Swedish proverb

“Feeling bad won’t make you good.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Feeling stupid won’t make you smart.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Give not over thy mind to heaviness, and afflict not thyself in thine own counsel.”–Ecclesiasticus 30:21

“He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace.”–Proverbs 11:12

“I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.”–Booker Taliaferro Washington, 1856-1915

“If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally–about anything. Yes, anything.”–Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127

“Let us not burden our remembrances with a heaviness that is gone.”–William Shakespeare

“Nonviolence means avoiding not only external physical violence but also internal violence of spirit. You not only refuse to shoot a man, but you refuse to hate him.”–Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Only God can damn without serving Satan.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“The moment you blame anyone for anything, your relationship and your personal power deteriorate.”–Brian Koslow

“The whiner equates pain with power.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming–or damning.”–Albert Ellis and Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127

“When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself.”–Louis Nizer

“You are what you hate not what you ate.”–Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“You can overcome anything if you don’t bellyache.”–Bernard Baruch

“You cannot solve a problem by condemning it.”–Wayne Dwyer

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