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7 Steps for Discovering Your Host Nature
- Ego will help you to recognize, remove, and replace your ego: a.k.a. self-esteem.
“Do not allow yourself to suppress your thoughts. Instead, let the thoughts come before you and become a sort of observer. Start observing your mind. Don’t try to escape, do not be afraid of your thinking.” —Swami Rama
“Thirty spokes connect to the wheel’s hub; yet, it is the center hole that makes it useful. Clay is shaped into a vessel; yet, it is the emptiness within that makes it useful. Doors and windows are cut for a room; yet it is the space where there is nothing that makes it useful. Therefore, though advantage comes from what is; usefulness comes from what is not.” —Lao Tzu
“To find yourself, think for yourself.” —Socrates
Step Approach to Finding Self
- This page presents an ordered or hierarchical step approach to re-identifying with your original child-nature.
- However, you can work on any step at any time.
- You do not have to follow the logical progression of the steps in order to be successful.
- The surest path is to work all the steps and to focus on those steps where you have the most success.
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FIRST STEP
- Recognize your internal world as your own unique place.
- Attend to your internal world: your inner place and space.
- Understand that your internal world is your primary world instead of the physical world.
SECOND STEP
- Learn that awareness of your inner world is living, is your awareness of living.
- Observe your inner world and know that what you are aware of becomes your experience of living.
- By focusing your awareness on the container and not the contents, you remain alive.
- Keep your identity free of the external world and your physical body.
THIRD STEP
- Notice how your inner body has sensations, feelings, and thoughts passing through it.
- Refuse to identify with any of the contents of your inner world.
- Be the container, host, and vessel that you were born as.
- Choose to live as the container (host), not as thoughts or other contents.
FOURTH STEP
- Identify with your inner world as your inner body.
- Understand your physical body is only a host for your spiritual body.
- Remain in contact with your inner world: that is to live as a human being.
FIFTH STEP
- Choose to commit your inner body to magnifying God by hosting God instead of other contents.
- Be your unique internal space and place.
- Know yourself as when and where your internal world occurs.
- Be the quiet and still place that is the host while magnifying virtue.
SIXTH STEP
- Rest and wait upon God to take care of your inner world.
- Trust in the Light, not your interference or observing to manage your contents.
- Wait upon God to take care of everything in your inner world.
- Have faith in the Light to take care of everything the comes into your space.
SEVENTH STEP
- Rest in the joy of the Lord from all work on the contents of your inner place and space (host).
- Return to God from the striving ways of the world.
- Surrender change, control, suppression, and trying as false ways of the world.
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7 Steps for Finding Your Authentic Self
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