Apologies Can Be Real

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Apologies Can Be Real: Learn How


Apologies can be real. Learn how to tell when they are real. You can make better apologies by following this formula.


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Apologies can be real. Learn how to tell when they are real. You can make better apologies by following this formula. Garden Your Mind book cover.

Apologies Can Be Real

WHO OR WHAT DOES THE APOLOGY SERVE

  1. An apology can be given only to alleviate the conscience of the one apologizing. This serves conscience.
  2. An apology can be given only to alleviate conflict or escape negative attention. This serves to escape a problem.
  3. A confession can be given only to prove that the person is better than what they did. This serves the ego.
  4. An apology can be given only to prove that the person is too good to be held accountable. This serves high self-esteem.
  5. An apology can be given as a way to show care and concern. This serves kindness.
  6. An apology can be given as a way to correct the problem. This serves maturity, personal integrity, and responsibility. It is rare.

Apologies Can Be Real

SIMPLE ANSWER

  • Suppose the apology does not promise a specific way to make amends, correct, or make up for the problem. In that case, the apology serves the apologizer, not the one being apologized to.

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