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What Do Women Want?

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Women Want 3 Things

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1. To feel supported by their husband.

  • This has traditionally been about financial support and physical security.
  • It is also about the security of the relationship, the family, and the home.

2. To be considered as pleasing by their husband.

  • This has traditionally been about being attractive or sexually desirable to their husband.
  • It is also about being desirable to be with and being loved for their personhood.

3. To have their husband’s time.

This includes:

  • listening to the wife without problem-solving, being around the home, playing with the children, watching a show or movie together that both want to see, working in the garden together, eating together, hanging out together, etc.

It does not include:

  • the husband watching sports the wife is not involved in, the husband working on the yard while the wife works on the house, separate amusements in the same room or home.

Job Never Done

Consider the three wants to be leaky buckets that you must keep filling.

  • There is no time that you can rest and think that the three wants are fulfilled.
  • You must continually satisfy and refill the three wants.
  • Make it a habit to regularly review all three wants in case you are missing serving one.

Arguments Are About Missing the Three or One of Them

  • When couples argue, they argue because they are not getting one or more of their three desires met.
  • The argument may be about toilet paper, but most of the time it is really about not getting one or more of their three wants met.
  • If each partner will review in themselves the three things that the other desires, they will find out which one or ones they are not currently providing.
  • If they will then provide those desires, the relationship will get back on track.

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