The Secret of Life

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Choose to Serve the Highest & Receive the Highest


“And he said unto them, Take heed what ye hear: with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you: and unto you that hear shall more be given.” —Mark 4:24

“Even as I have seen, they that plow iniquity, and sow wickedness, reap the same.” —Job 4:8

“The secret of life is: what you serve is what you get.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice


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The Secret of Life

  • You get what you serve.
  • You get what you amplify.
  • You get what you magnify.
  • You get what you most reflect with your heart.

What You Serve Is What You Get

  • What your mind is on most of the time is what you will get for all of eternity.
  • Is this good news? If not, then put your mind on the positive. Or, better yet, put your mind on the love of God.

“If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.” —Lao Tzu

“For the work of a man shall he render unto him, and cause every man to find according to his ways.” —Job 34:11


What You Plant You Harvest

  • What do you plant in your heart, soul, and mind?
  • How much time do you spend on planting good things to grow in your heart, soul, and mind?
  • Do you think you can harvest another man’s crops?
  • Do you think you can harvest what you have not planted and cared for?
  • Do you want to reap what you have sowed when you whined, blamed, and damned?
  • Do you want to reap what you have sowed when you gossiped, mocked, slandered, and despised?

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Why Does Hell Exist?

  • Can and do people make their life a living hell?
  • Can and do people make their own mind a living hell?
  • Can and do people make their relationships a living hell?
  • How many people do you know who are living in hell on Earth?
  • What you serve is what gets the most attention and time of your heart, soul, and mind.
  • If you serve hellish feelings, experiences, and thoughts, then you can expect to live in such for eternity.
  • There is no place for you to go, but where you want to go, and where you want to go is revealed by what you serve.
  • If you did not go to where you served, then you would go to nothingness.
  • Most prefer going to hell than going nowhere.

3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2020

#Punishment #Reward: 2020-03-02

  1. The only punishment is that you get to continue to host the evil that you serve most.
  2. The only punishment is serving the evil that you serve without any covering or pretense.
  3. The only punishment is experiencing the recurring death, darkness, and disintegration of the evil that you serve.
  4. The only reward is that you get to continue to host the good that you serve the most.
  5. The only reward is experiencing the infinite life, light, and love of the good that you serve.

#Will #Life: 2020-08-09

  1. Will is the meaning of life.
  2. Will is the expression of life for life.
  3. Will is the expression of the soul’s intentions.
  4. Will is the movement of purpose towards a goal.
  5. Will is the driving force of your beating heart and breathing lungs.

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What You Serve Is What You Get

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What you serve is what you get.


You Get What You Serve


Serve what you want to get.


You Get What You Give


Give What You Want to Get


3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2021

  • Seek & Find by Dwelling: 09-26-2021
  1. “What you seek you find; therefore, when you dwell on anger, you find more anger.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  2. “What you seek you find; therefore, when you dwell on anxiety, fear, and worry, you find more anxiety, fear, and worry.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  3. “What you seek you find; therefore, when you dwell on depression, guilt, and shame, you find more depression, guilt, and shame.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  4. “What you seek you find; therefore, when you dwell on whining, blaming, and damning, you find more whining, blaming, and damning.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  5. “What you seek you find; therefore, when you dwell on disadvantages, handicaps, hindrances, and obstacles, you find more disadvantages, handicaps, hindrances, and obstacles.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

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3 Ways to Suffer with 3 Results

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  • Learn how to stop misusing suffering.

3 Main Ways to Suffer

3 Main Ways You Can Choose to Suffer


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Quotations Various Sources

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“A God all mercy is a God unjust.” —Edward Young, 1683-1765

“And he said unto them, Take heed what ye hear: with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you: and unto you that hear shall more be given.” —Mark 4:24

“Even as I have seen, they that plow iniquity, and sow wickedness, reap the same.” —Job 4:8

“Far and away the best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.” —Theodore Roosevelt

“For as the Father hath life in himself; so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself;” —John 5:26

“If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.” —Lao Tzu

“If you would be loved, love, and be lovable.” —Benjamin Franklin

“Keep a good heart. That’s the most important thing in life. It’s not how much money you make or what you can acquire. The art of it is to keep a good heart.” —Joni Mitchell

“Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?” —Romans 6:16

“Men are not punished for their sins, but by them.” —Elbert Hubbard, 1865-1915

“Mercy but murders, pardoning those that kill.” —William Shakespeare, 1564-1616

“Nothing emboldens sin so much as mercy.” —William Shakespeare

“The goal of all life is death.” —Sigmund Freud

“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” —Alan Watts

“The only way to have a friend is to be one.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)

“The purpose of human life is to serve and to show compassion and the will to help others.” —Albert Schweitzer

“The story of life is that Jesus made His own angels to serve Him in Heaven for eternity.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“The way to be served is to serve.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“There is poetic justice.” —Aphorism

“To receive everything, one must open one’s hands and give.” —Buddhist saying

“Use your suffering or your suffering will use you.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“What goes around comes around.” —Aphorism

“You get the war you deserve.” —Jean-Paul Sartre

“You’ll yield what you give.” —John Cera

“Your feet will take you where your heart is.” —Irish proverb


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