Having a Victim Script Is Self-Defeating and Debilitating

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Victimhood Is Self-Defeating Pride

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“Victimhood confers privilege-hood according to modern politics.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

“Victimhood is when you are willing to destroy yourself for the right to destroy others.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

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Self-Esteem Leads to 2 Basic Types

Masochists & Sadists

The masochists take pleasure in low self-esteem, which is to know better than yourself.
The sadists take pleasure in high self-esteem, which is to know better than others.
The masochists take pleasure in receiving pain (I am the inferior).
The sadists take pleasure in giving pain (they are the inferior).

Pride Consists of 2 Basic Types

Knowing-Better-Than Self & Knowing-Better-Than Others

It is easy to see that sadists think they know better than others and so have pride in being superior.
It is also relatively easy to see that masochists think they know better than themselves and so have pride in being inferior.
What is a little harder to see is that masochists/victims have more pride than sadists.
Why? Because victims get to have both forms of pride: victims get to have the pride of both knowing better than themselves AND knowing better than others.
See the page Ego Payoffs for more information.

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Victims Think They’re Stupid

This is the pride of knowing better than themselves for allowing themselves to be abused again and again.
Victims also think others are bad (the pride of knowing better than others) for the abuse others do to them.

Victim Script Maintained

Victims maintain their script by both thinking everyone is good, has high morals, AND that everyone is mean and bad.
They need to trust in order to get abused and be stupid and to damn in order to know better.
Hence, they believe both that people are good and bad.
They typically believe that people are either good or bad.

Victims Think They’re Superior to Abusers

This is the pride of knowing better than others because victims believe they would not do what was done to them.

Pride Over Humanity

Superior to abusers: “I would never do that.”
Superior to themselves: “I am such a loser.”

Universal Human Nature

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Victimhood Fun & Games

Victims have the most fun, ego, pride, games, and the highest self-esteem.
Victims double their pride by knowing better than themselves and others at the same time.
Remember, high self-esteem is inseparable from low self-esteem because they are the two sides of the same coin: yin and yang for each other.
Hence, the more of one side you have—the more of the other side you also have (bipolar, mania).
Sadists hide their low self-esteem in darkness (subconscious and unconscious minds).
Victims hide their high self-esteem in darkness (subconscious and unconscious minds).
This is why victims appear to be sick to others: their extremely low self-esteem is obviously desired and defended.
What the average person does not see is how low self-esteem is used to gain high self-esteem.

For more information and examples of scripts, please read Games Ego Plays.

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3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2021

You Are a Victim of You: 09-07-2021

“You are a victim of your laziness and procrastination.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
“You are a victim of your poor decision-making and problem-solving.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
“You are a victim of your poor coping skills and lack of acceptance of self, others, and life.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
“You are a victim of your ignorance, lack of seeking help, and not pursuing more and better information.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
“You are a victim of your negative attitudes, whining, blaming, damning, and tendency to make things worse.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2019

#Victims #Punish: 2019-04-30

Victims are good because they are suffering, and you are bad for not being one of them.
Victims are good because they are suffering, and you are bad for not suffering with them.
Victims are good because they are suffering, and you are bad for not fixing their suffering.
Victims are good because they are suffering, and you are bad for not preventing their suffering.
Victims are good because they are suffering, and you are bad for not appreciating and understanding their suffering.

#Victim #Pride: 2019-05-05

Be a victim to have pride in knowing better than perpetrators.
Be a victim to have pride in doing better than perpetrators.
Be a victim to have pride in being better than perpetrators.
Be a victim to have pride in the right to abuse perpetrators because they first abused you.
Be a victim to have pride in being superior to perpetrators because you have superior morals and behave in a superior manner.

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