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Self-Talk Tests: Will Serve Ego or Self
- Ego will help you to recognize, remove, and replace your ego: a.k.a. self-esteem.
Self-Talk Tests is a way to verify and prove your self-talk for what it serves and if it is helping. Does it support ego?
Self-Talk Tests: Note About this Page
- Normally, this website and the author’s books talk about self-talk as being ego-talk.
- However, it is possible for self-talk to be about your authentic and original nature.
- It is just a sad fact of life that for adults, their self-talk and thoughts are almost exclusively about ego.
- Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.
Self-Talk Tests: What Does It Serve?
- Does the self-talk think of you are the “knower”?
- Does the self-talk think of you as the “doer”?
- Does the self-talk think of you as being or becoming something?
- If you can answer “yes” to any of the above, then that self-talk is serving the ego.
Self-Talk Tests: Self-Talk Shoulds
The basic shoulds of self-talk:
- I should be this.
- I should not be that.
- I should do that.
- I should not do that.
- The above shoulds can be used either for or against self.
Self-Talk Tests: Self or Ego
- You need to know that the nature of self is as an amplifier, host, mirror, reflector, and transceiver.
- You need to know that the nature of ego is thought and thought as you knowing, doing, being, or becoming something.
- Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should amplify or what you should know.
- Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should magnify or what you should do.
- Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should host or what you should become.
Self-Talk Tests: Thinking Helpful or Hurtful
- Thinking that helps you to keep your true identity as a vessel is helpful thinking.
- Thinking that helps you keep your false identity as concepts and images is hurtful thinking.
- Serve ego and serve your own death as things and thoughts.
- Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.
Self-Talk Insights from 3D: Daily Dose: 2013
2013-03-10
- Self-talk is not thinking.
- Self-talk is not reasoning.
- Self-talk is not intelligent or smart.
- Self-talk is not talented, skilled, or creative.
- Self-talk is not understanding or compassionate.
2013-03-11
- Self-talk is not aware.
- Self-talk is not sensible.
- Self-talk is not conscious.
- Self-talk is not perceptive.
- Self-talk is not responsive.
2013-03-12
- Self-talk is not coping.
- Self-talk is not agreeable.
- Self-talk is not problem-solving.
- Self-talk is not helpful or beneficial.
- Self-talk is not capable of negotiation or compromise.
2013-04-29
- Self-talk is not self.
- Self-talk is not talk.
- Self-talk is not self talking.
- Self-talk is not self listening.
- Self-talk is not but ego.
2013-06-26
- Self-talk is just talk, not action.
- Self-talk is just noise, not music.
- Self-talk is just clamor, not power.
- Self-talk is just racket, not agency.
- Self-talk is just static, not substance.
2013-07-10
- Self-talk stories are insane stories.
- Self-talk stories are never true stories.
- Self-talk stories are never real stories.
- Self-talk stories are illusions or delusions.
- Self-talk stories are projections or fantasies.
2013-07-11
- Self-talk court sessions are never legal trials.
- Self-talk court sessions are never fair or just trials.
- Self-talk court sessions are insane trials right out of the imagination of Kafka.
- Self-talk court sessions never follow the procedures followed by legitimate trials.
- Self-talk court sessions never follow the rules of evidence followed by legitimate trials.
2013-09-30
- Self-talk Dialectics Basics
- The debate over to label something as a positive or negative.
- The debate over whether or not something labeled a positive is really a negative or not.
- The debate over whether or not something labeled a negative is really a positive or not.
- The debate to change, control, or undo a negative into a positive.
- The debate to change, control, or undo a positive into a negative.
3D: Daily Dose: 2014
2014-07-21
- Self-talk is ego-talk.
- Self-love is ego-love.
- Self-esteem is ego-esteem.
- Self-respect is ego-respect.
- Self-confidence is ego-confidence.
2014-10-24
- Self-talk is ego-talk.
- Self-interest is ego-interest.
- Self-becoming is ego-becoming.
- Self-regulation is ego-regulation.
- Self-knowledge is ego-knowledge.
3D: Daily Dose: 2020
#Cope #Self-Talk: 2020-05-08
- There are five common failures for coping with negative self-talk.
- Turn the negative self-talk on itself, which feeds it with attention, energy, and time.
- Turn the negative self-talk on yourself, which feeds it with conflict, conscience, guilt, and shame.
- Turn the negative self-talk on others, which feeds it with blaming, comparing, damning, judging, and whining.
- Turn the negative self-talk on life, which feeds it with blaming, damning, demanding, politicking, and whining.
- Turn the negative self-talk on darkness, which feeds it with covering, denying, excusing, hiding, rationalizing, and reframing.
3D: Daily Dose: 2021
Premises of Self-Talk: 02-07-2021
“Have you ever examined the premises of your self-talk such as, ‘You should always know what is best else you are an idiot?’” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
Self-Talk Consists of Cheap Tricks: 10-02-2021
- “All talk about what and who you are is talk, not you.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “All your thoughts about who you are change, but not who you are.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “All your internal dialogues (self-talk) about what and who you are do not affect what and who you are.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “All self-concepts and self-images are about nobody and nothing but imaginary creatures who will never live.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “All your self-esteem claims about what objects you were, are, and should-be have nothing to do with your self.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
Self-Talk Is Prized Despite Being Lies: 10-03-2021
- “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be thinking it; however, you still do it, so what is the payoff?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be reacting to it; however, you still do it, so what is the ego reward?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be the one having the thoughts; however, you still do it, so what is the benefit?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “The payoff for the mindless and irrational chatter that we call self-talk (ego-talk) is pride in being or becoming something better than others.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- “The reward for the endless and delusional chatter that we call self-talk (ego-talk) is pride in knowing or doing something better than others know or do it.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
- Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.
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- Read and discover how CBT, REBT, & Stoicism evolved into one system: STPHFR.
- Read and discover the world’s best breathing exercise for centering and peace of mind.
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