Self-Talk: Test for Ego or Self

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Self-Talk Will Serve Ego or Self

  • Ego will help you to recognize, remove, and replace your ego: a.k.a. self-esteem.

Note About this Page

  • Normally, this website and the author’s books talk about self-talk as being ego-talk.
  • However, it is possible for self-talk to be about your authentic and original nature.
  • It is just a sad fact of life, that for adults, their self-talk and thoughts are almost exclusively about ego.

  • Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.

Self-Talk: Test for Ego or Self

How to Test What Self-Talk Serves

  1. Does the self-talk think of you are the “knower”?
  2. Does the self-talk think of you as the “doer”?
  3. Does the self-talk think of you as being or becoming something?
  • If you can answer “yes” to any of the above, then that self-talk is serving the ego.

Self-Talk Shoulds

The basic shoulds of self-talk:

  1. I should be this.
  2. I should not be that.
  3. I should do that.
  4. I should not do that.
  • The above shoulds can be used either for or against self.

Self or Ego

  • You need to know that the nature of self is as an amplifier, host, mirror, reflector, and transceiver.
  • You need to know that the nature of ego is thought and thought as you knowing, doing, being, or becoming something.
  1. Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should amplify or what you should know.
  2. Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should magnify or what you should do.
  3. Then you can ask if the self-talk is about what you should host or what you should become.

Thinking Helpful or Hurtful

  • Thinking that helps you to keep your true identity as a vessel is helpful thinking.
  • Thinking that helps you keep your false identity as concepts and images is hurtful thinking.
  • Serve ego and serve your own death as things and thoughts.

  • Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.

Self-Talk: Test for Ego or Self

Self-Talk Insights from 3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2013


2013-03-10

  1. Self-talk is not thinking.
  2. Self-talk is not reasoning.
  3. Self-talk is not intelligent or smart.
  4. Self-talk is not talented, skilled, or creative.
  5. Self-talk is not understanding or compassionate.

2013-03-11

  1. Self-talk is not aware.
  2. Self-talk is not sensible.
  3. Self-talk is not conscious.
  4. Self-talk is not perceptive.
  5. Self-talk is not responsive.

2013-03-12

  1. Self-talk is not coping.
  2. Self-talk is not agreeable.
  3. Self-talk is not problem-solving.
  4. Self-talk is not helpful or beneficial.
  5. Self-talk is not capable of negotiation or compromise.

2013-04-29

  1. Self-talk is not self.
  2. Self-talk is not talk.
  3. Self-talk is not self talking.
  4. Self-talk is not self listening.
  5. Self-talk is not but ego.

2013-06-26

  1. Self-talk is just talk, not action.
  2. Self-talk is just noise, not music.
  3. Self-talk is just clamor, not power.
  4. Self-talk is just racket, not agency.
  5. Self-talk is just static, not substance.

2013-07-10

  1. Self-talk stories are insane stories.
  2. Self-talk stories are never true stories.
  3. Self-talk stories are never real stories.
  4. Self-talk stories are illusions or delusions.
  5. Self-talk stories are projections or fantasies.

2013-07-11

  1. Self-talk court sessions are never legal trials.
  2. Self-talk court sessions are never fair or just trials.
  3. Self-talk court sessions are insane trials right out of the imagination of Kafka.
  4. Self-talk court sessions never follow the procedures followed by legitimate trials.
  5. Self-talk court sessions never follow the rules of evidence followed by legitimate trials.

2013-09-30

  • Self-talk Dialectics Basics
  1. The debate over to label something as a positive or negative.
  2. The debate over whether or not something labeled a positive is really a negative or not.
  3. The debate over whether or not something labeled a negative is really a positive or not.
  4. The debate to change, control, or undo a negative into a positive.
  5. The debate to change, control, or undo a positive into a negative.

3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2014

2014-07-21

  1. Self-talk is ego-talk.
  2. Self-love is ego-love.
  3. Self-esteem is ego-esteem.
  4. Self-respect is ego-respect.
  5. Self-confidence is ego-confidence.

2014-10-24

  1. Self-talk is ego-talk.
  2. Self-interest is ego-interest.
  3. Self-becoming is ego-becoming.
  4. Self-regulation is ego-regulation.
  5. Self-knowledge is ego-knowledge.

3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2020

#Cope #Self-Talk: 2020-05-08

  • There are five common failures for coping with negative self-talk.
  1. Turn the negative self-talk on itself, which feeds it with attention, energy, and time.
  2. Turn the negative self-talk on yourself, which feeds it with conflict, conscience, guilt, and shame.
  3. Turn the negative self-talk on others, which feeds it with blaming, comparing, damning, judging, and whining.
  4. Turn the negative self-talk on life, which feeds it with blaming, damning, demanding, politicking, and whining.
  5. Turn the negative self-talk on darkness, which feeds it with covering, denying, excusing, hiding, rationalizing, and reframing.

3D: Daily Dose of Discernment: 2021

Premises of Self-Talk: 02-07-2021

“Have you ever examined the premises of your self-talk such as, ‘You should always know what is best else you are an idiot?’” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice


Self-Talk Consists of Cheap Tricks: 10-02-2021

  1. “All talk about what and who you are is talk, not you.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  2. “All your thoughts about who you are change, but not who you are.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  3. “All your internal dialogues (self-talk) about what and who you are do not affect what and who you are.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  4. “All self-concepts and self-images are about nobody and nothing but imaginary creatures who will never live.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  5. “All your self-esteem claims about what objects you were, are, and should-be have nothing to do with your self.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

Self-Talk Is Prized Despite Being Lies: 10-03-2021

  1. “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be thinking it; however, you still do it, so what is the payoff?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  2. “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be reacting to it; however, you still do it, so what is the ego reward?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  3. “It is clear that you are not what you think of yourself, else you would not be the one having the thoughts; however, you still do it, so what is the benefit?” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  4. “The payoff for the mindless and irrational chatter that we call self-talk (ego-talk) is pride in being or becoming something better than others.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
  5. “The reward for the endless and delusional chatter that we call self-talk (ego-talk) is pride in knowing or doing something better than others know or do it.” —Kevin Everett FitzMaurice

  • Read and discover the best system and plan to reduce and remove your ego.

Self-Talk: Test for Ego or Self

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