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Control What You Choose to Feed

Control What You Feed to Control It


Choose What You Feed & What to Stop Feeding

• The Secret of Maturity, Third Edition for 99¢ will teach you how to own the power of emotional responsibility.


CHOOSE TO FEED OR NOT TO FEED

  • It is your choice to feed your mental and physical sensations.
  • It is your choice to stop feeding your mental or physical sensations that you have been feeding.

CONTROL LIMITED TO PAST OR FUTURE

  • Control does not exist for what exists. Proof: The fact of something’s existence is irreversible in the present moment of its existence.
  • Control exists for what does not exist, because you can influence what will get to exist.
  • Control exists for what did exist, because you can influence what happens next.

RESPONSES YOU CAN MAKE

  • You can redirect many things onto different paths and so different outcomes.
  • You can encourage many things to develop and increase.
  • You can influence many things to exist or not to exist.

SOME SPECIFIC FORMS OF CONTROL

  • You can starve many things, for example, thoughts so that they pass and leave your mind.
  • You can feed many things, for example, thoughts so that they continue in your mind.
  • Your identity can feed anything inside you by attaching to it, and; thereby, maintain that thing’s life in you even after you suppress it or hide it in darkness.
  • Your attention can stimulate and partially feed anything inside of you and thereby encourage it to continue.
  • You can direct, lead, pull, or push on many things to influence their path.

NEGATION AS CONTROL

  • You can stop many things by stopping to feed them.
  • You can accept a thing to stop its attraction, drama, and demand for attention.
  • You can detach your identity from many things to remove their force and power.
  • You can ignore many things and thereby deny them your attention.
  • You can despise a thing to remove your attention, energy, and time from it.

Related Pages

  1. Better Choose Better
  2. Blame 6 Levels
  3. Blame or Responsibility: 100 Things You Can Blame
  4. Challenging & Disputing Thinking Errors
  5. Choose Higher when Tempted by Lower
  6. Control What You Can
  7. Emotional Maturity 6 Levels
  8. Emotional Responsibility (ER): Diagram
  9. Parable on Responsibility
  10. REBT’s ABCs of Emotions
  11. Response of Responsibility

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