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Control What You Can

10 Things I Cannot Change

Control What You Can, Not Try to Control What You Cannot

  • The Secret of Maturity, Third Edition for 99¢ will teach you how to own the power of emotional responsibility.
  • Ego will help you to recognize, remove, and replace your ego: a.k.a. self-esteem.

  • Use the table at the top to make your own list of what you cannot control so will stop trying to control.
  • Failing to control causes negative stress and discouragement.

Focus on What You Can Do

  • Life works well when we focus on controlling what we can control.
  • Life increases in troubles when we focus on controlling what we cannot control.
  • Learn some guidelines for what you can and cannot control.
  • Accept what you cannot now control, and put your energies into controlling what you can.

  • Use the table below to make your own list of what things you can control so you know where to put your focus.
  • Succeeding at control causes positive stress and encouragement.

15 Things I Can Change

15 Things I Can Change

Related Pages

  1. Better Choose Better
  2. Blame 6 Levels
  3. Blame or Responsibility: 100 Things You Can Blame
  4. Challenging & Disputing Thinking Errors
  5. Choose Higher when Tempted by Lower
  6. Control What You Choose to Feed
  7. Emotional Maturity 6 Levels
  8. Emotional Responsibility (ER): Diagram
  9. Parable on Responsibility
  10. REBT’s ABCs of Emotions
  11. Response of Responsibility

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